An Open Letter On Race, Justice, And Taking Action

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We are thrilled to bring to you this open letter drafted by Nicole, our resident data officer and a black woman, addressing the “but now what?” questions many of us are asking in the wake of a national uprising following the killing of George Floyd in Minneapolis. We are indebted to Nicole for her experience, wisdom and willingness to lead on an issue critical to the future of our families, communities, workplaces and nation.

Over the past week, I have received an outpouring of love and encouragement from my white friends and family. I genuinely appreciate your support and am thankful that you are willing to stand with my family. 

However, standing with me cannot be all that you do. Loving me and my family is simply not enough. Love alone is not going to change the deeply rooted, structural issues that we face. 

You must be willing to do the work required to bring about sustainable change.

Some of you have asked about the purpose of the protests and about what comes next. This movement is not just about the murders of George Floyd, Breonna Taylor, Tony McDade, and Ahmaud Arbery. It is not solved after a handful of officers are removed from their positions and held accountable by the justice system. This is about the countless (often nameless) people who have experienced government-sanctioned violence. 

This is about making sure that our children and grandchildren are not dealing with these same experiences and the collective trauma that comes with them. 

Some of you have asked me what you can do. I believe that we are in a unique moment in history where we can push over the threshold to see real change, but we must be intentional in taking action. I outline below three things that you can do:

  1. Take the time to listen and learn.

  2. Do not remain silent.

  3. Start the work to bring about change.

In this letter I provide some resources to get you started. 

1. Take the time to listen and learn. 

We live in a time where information is available at your fingertips. Seek out the stories and perspectives of others. Ask questions and seek out the answers. Make a concerted effort to listen to the diverse voices of oppressed peoples. 

All of us want to be able to live freely our full humanity. We might not all agree on how to reach that goal, but understanding the various perspectives is a critical part of us moving forward together.

I highly recommend Rachel Cargle’s public address. Please take less than 20 minutes and listen to her public address. This. All of this.

Here are some resources to get you started on the path of learning more:

2. Do not remain silent. 

You might not feel like you have the right words to say - but do not let that keep you in a state of paralysis. You can influence people who would never have these conversations with me or another person of color. Now is the time to speak up. There are plenty of resources for you to have these discussions.  

Take the opportunities that present themselves to talk with your friends and family. You likely will not need to seek out these opportunities; they will appear in offhand comments, in “jokes,” in sincere questions, in observations, in opinions. Use those openings to start a dialogue

Have discussions about race, structural racism, and privilege with your children. Today’s Parent published a short article about age-appropriate ways to talk to your kids about race a few years ago. It is important to help older children understand that freedom for all requires more than just loving the black families they know or personally trying to treat everyone equally. Structures have been built that will take actual work to change. Olugbemisola Rhuday-Perkovich has compiled a list of books for parents and children to start those discussions on race. 

These discussions also need to be happening in our businesses and organizations. Make space for these conversations with your employees. Catalyst provides this infographic with suggestions about overcoming conversation roadblocks.  

3. Start the work to bring about change. 

Each of us may have a different role in this movement but we ALL have work to do. I am asking you to do the work required to have a clear understanding of the issues underlying the protests and identify how you can contribute to the movement forward.

Here are some thoughts and resources to get you started:

While it is important to listen to black and brown voices, asking people of color to do the work for you is not an option. Take ownership of learning what you need to do to become a true ally in this movement.  

For this season, my role in this movement is to help equip my white friends and family with the resources they need to do the work required to make this sustainable change. This is my charge for this time but should not be the expected work of the people of color in your lives

I will not have all of the answers, but I am here for the discussion. I do this work in hopes that my child and his children will live in a better world than this one.

“Until we are all free, we are none of us free.” ~Emma Lazarus

Onward, Nicole

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